Oh, and if you're wondering...

...where all my miscarriage grief went, don't fear, it's still hanging around.  I have started a blog over at Open Salon where I blog exclusively about my miscarriage.  I think that's appropriate.  This blog has been around, in various iterations, for almost 8 years.  I want Baby T to have his own place where I can grieve for him in a venue that's unique from the place where I used to blog about bad dates.  So check it out if you want to stew in grief for a while.  One of my posts was already made an Editor's Pick.  Go grief go!